Being human often means reacting before thinking, repeating patterns we don’t fully understand, and feeling stuck despite our best intentions. This book is written for people who recognize those moments and want something more useful than advice or motivation.
Drawing from decades of clinical experience and a deeply personal journey, David Ellis explains how emotions, trauma, and early experiences quietly shape behavior. Instead of asking readers to ignore or suppress what they feel, Being Human: A User’s Guide focuses on learning how to regulate emotional intensity so clearer choices become possible.
This isn’t a promise of instant change. It’s a practical, compassionate guide for understanding yourself, interrupting destructive loops, and building a steadier way forward—one step at a time.
THE POWER OF EFFECTIVENESS THERAPY is a mind-churning, well-written overview of the many schools of psychological thought. Each chapter is logically set up in a way that conveys a types of therapy with excellent citation and incredibly in-depth research. Even more intriguing is the personal background of author, David Ellis, who, in his introduction, has the gumption to reveal his demons through personal anecdotes – one such personal issue is overcoming his addiction to alcohol.
Ellis’ willingness to come right out and disclose his life is both commendable and brave; and most important, he makes the reader comfortable with the subject matter. In a time whereby mental illness is one of the most pressing worldly causes, books like these seek to provide a moral and ethical framework to be absorbed and subsequently practiced.